Birth - Anatomy Of Love And Sex -1981- -

The nipple-areola complex is rich in sensory nerve endings—Meissner’s corpuscles and free nerve endings identical to those in the clitoris and glans penis. Suckling triggers the same hypothalamic response as genital stimulation.

That is the anatomy of love. Discovered, articulated, and championed in 1981. And still true today.

To understand birth is to understand sex. To heal birth trauma is to heal sexual trauma. To celebrate the anatomy of love is to honor the uterus that contracts, the cervix that opens, the vagina that stretches, the perineum that yields, and the breast that nourishes. Birth - Anatomy of Love and Sex -1981-

To cut the perineum without medical necessity was, in the emerging 1981 view, to sever the anatomical bridge between reproductive sex and pleasurable sex. If 1981 redrew the anatomy of the mother, it also finally acknowledged the father’s hormonal body. Previously, fathers were relegated to waiting rooms. But the bonding studies of the late 1970s, hitting mainstream consciousness in 1981, showed something remarkable.

The caesarean section rate in the US was rising (hitting nearly 18% by 1981, up from 5% in 1970). Critics argued that the supine position (lying on the back, which compresses the sacrum and narrows the pelvic outlet) was not just bad obstetrics but bad sex. You cannot make love or birth a baby effectively lying flat on your back with your legs in stirrups. The nipple-areola complex is rich in sensory nerve

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We are, each of us, born from an act of love (or at least, an act of sex). And we spend the rest of our lives seeking a love that feels like that first, primal safety—the warm, rhythmic, oxytocin-soaked memory of being held skin-to-skin, hearing a heartbeat, and knowing, before language, that we are safe. Discovered, articulated, and championed in 1981

This had direct implications for the couple’s sexual relationship. The 1981 sex therapists noted that couples who birthed together (with the father as a calm, informed coach) reported re-establishing intercourse faster than those from whom the father was excluded. The shared trauma-to-triumph of birth became a form of "limbic bonding" that deepened marital sex. In the anatomy of love, the breast is the most polyvalent organ. In 1981, the debate over breastfeeding was at its most politicized (the first WHO code on marketing breast-milk substitutes was adopted that year). But the anatomy was clear.